VALGRAYS BORDER COLLIE RESCUE

This is the sad page, where our beloved ones can be remembered.  Shirley can add your tribute to your Valgray dog and also any lovely Valgray owners/folk who have left us too soon (please email your wording/pictures).   Val started this off with a tribute to her wonderful Mother who so sadly passed away in 2004.

• Email your tribute (preferrably with photo*) to Shirley (NOT Val):   shirley4valgraysXhotmail.co.uk  (please change the 'X' to an '@' symbol)  - you cannot add to this website yourself 
• >>> please  DO  NOT  email  them  to  Val  she is busy enough <<<    

* When emailing your tribute, please DO NOT have photos embedded into the text, please send wording separately and attach any photos you would like me to use.  Many thanks.

NOTE:  New stories will be shown as the top paragraph for a few weeks, and will then be moved into dogs pet name in alphabetical order  (loved doggy people are below the dogs)

There is a lovely 'candles for remembrance' site which I have made up exclusively for Valgrays.   Here you can click on a candle and leave a short message about your loved one.  Unfortunately the candles only stay alight for 24 hours, but you can go back in again after that time and start a new one.   The direct link to the Valgray Group is below.  You click on a picture of an unlit candle to start.   Where it says 'few words of dedication' you can add a short message and end it with your name.   Where it says 'initial your candle',  I recommend you put a shortened version of your  lost ones name  in (not your own name) so you can find all candles left for that particular person/dog.   Anyone can read the messages you put into the candles.  Just click on any lit candle to read the messages.   I hope you like this site.   Shirley.

CLICK HERE TO GO TO THE VALGRAYS IN MEMORY CANDLE SITE

Lewis adopted from Valgrays 1999 to November 2009

Hello.  My name is Lottie and I was Lewis’s lifetime companion and best friend.  I am a border collie and, like Lewis, I was also adopted from Val.  Our mother, Sue, adopted Lewis in the summer of 1999 and he was probably aged between 1 and 2 years.  She then adopted me at Christmas because she said Lewis needed a friend.

Lewis was my best friend.  I didn’t always treat him very well – I made him wait till I drank out of the water bowl first and I ate my dinner biscuits one at a time very slowly because he used to sit behind me, salivating, hoping to have the remains of my food.  If I wasn’t careful he would steal my food.  I only ever let him have a ball or tuggie if I felt like it; otherwise I hoarded them on the sofa out of his way.  

When we were first adopted Sue had to ask a dog psychologist for help because Lewis was very badly behaved.  He tried to help her but it was clear Lewis needed long term rehabilitation.  The psychologist told Sue to put Lewis on a “naughty lead” whenever he would not stop barking or when he ran off with a rug and refused to give it back.  Lewis, of course, knew how to stop this sort of psychology nonsense and after two days solved the problem of having to sit quietly on a lead for 10 minutes by eating the lead.  Us Collies are very intelligent you know!  So, Sue enrolled us into dog school where the trainers specialised in collies.   We both did very well in the end.  Lewis gained his Kennel Club Silver Award and I got my Gold Award.  I think Lewis only got his silver certificate because he was the trainer’s favourite.  He really enjoyed his school nights.  He treated them as a lads’ night out, took every opportunity to pee in the worst places (the fire bucket was his favourite) and one evening broke out of the front door and ran off down the street into a pub.  The trainer suspected Sue had an alcohol problem as Lewis was obviously at home in a pub and would not believe he never frequented such places!  Eventually the trainer suggested he would not get any further until he could become more focused.  I think this was a polite way of saying he was expelled.

Lewis had a wonderful life.  We went on regular holidays and stayed in hotels that didn’t mind us being there.  We had daily long walks and lots of friends.   Sue once had a coffee morning for our friends and their owners.  We had never had so many dogs in the garden before but we were all well behaved and only one of our friends got on the table to try to steal the cakes.  We used to go to the annual dog show and Lewis loved that.  Sue entered him once into Most Handsome Rescued Dog but he wasn’t even placed!  Sue said it was fixed because someone much less handsome than Lewis won.  Surely you will agree he was very handsome when you look at his photo?

Well, I miss him very much and so does Sue and our Dad.  We are all heartbroken that he is no longer with us.  But we feel he is still here in some way and always will be.

Lottie, Sue & Dad

Chocki adopted from Valgrays 1994 - 19th October, 2009

'AG. CH. Valgrays Mini Mouse'

(Story can be read here - scroll down for Chocki)

AG. CH. Valgray´s Mini Mouse (Chocki)
18/7/93 - 19/10/09
 
Where do I start. Chocki came to me when she was about 12 weeks old, from Val Phillips. She was very small but long and brown with a white tummy, she looked like a chocolate eclair with legs, hence the name chocki. She was a lively, active puppy and very bright. As she got older I started training her for agility, little did I know how good she was to become.  She won many classes, qualified for nearly all the major finals and competed at Crufts for eight years. She gained her Championship title to become the first Agility Champion Mini in the UK.
I have always been very proud of her and we have had a tremendous relationship. She came to Spain with me when we moved here four and a half years ago and even won a few classes over here until one day she let me know that she had had enough and did not want to jump any more. She then spent long days lying in the sun on the top step of the swimming pool.
Sleep well little Chocki, you will always be with me.
Carol. x

--- XXX xxx XXX ---

Carol called me last night to inform me that her beloved Chocki died on Monday.  Although carol is in Spain now we always keep in touch. Carol said she feels so lost without her as she was a big part of her life; she also thanked me for finding her for her. So sad; Chocki was the first mini dog to get Championship status and extra special as she was a Valgrays.  Our thoughts are with carol and family at this very sad time....

Val

Mattie adopted from Valgrays 2008

Mattie, my beautiful boy (photos at Valgrays after his marathon grooming session)

 MORE PHOTOS OF MATTIE HERE

My house was usually home to three dogs and seemed strangely empty with only me and Tessa when I lost two dogs very closely together. I had been told about Val and her BC rescue so that is how I came to be ringing her door bell to collect the little dog she had called Mattie. Pictures had been downloaded of Mattie standing amongst more fur than was on his body as there was no other way of dealing with such a mess; then a picture of bath time and finally a rather forlorn little dog.

I lifted him into the back of my car --- destination unknown to him --- his past unknown to me. It was not too hard to piece it together as the only things he was not frightened of were live stock and farm machinery.  I knew that he was rescued from the Welsh dog pound; frightened and filthy.  Clearly he had spent most of his life chained up as he continually paced up and down like a caged animal. Other dogs were to be feared and it took some getting used to the fact that an outstretched hand was going to stroke, not hit and brushes were for grooming not landing a blow. I don’t know what went on between him and Tessa but she seemed to think it was her job to look after him even though she thought him a bit daft because he didn’t want to chase her and play.  In turn he thought I was nice and kind to him but a bit stupid!  If I wanted to play ball why didn’t I just get on with it instead of trying to involve him? He looked at me with those big brown eyes doubting my sanity and wondering why I had just thrown something away if I really wanted it and expected him to fetch it. Oh, well! We decided to concentrate on the practical things; walking on a lead and coming when called preferably not in his own good time etc.

I loved Mattie from the day I saw him and over the months a metamorphosis took place as he learned to love other dogs and trust people. We had fourteen months before he suddenly and unaccountably had a series of dreadfully severe fits, all in the space of a few hours.  He ended up not knowing where he was or who I was.  Clearly he was never going to recover from the terrible state in which all this had left him.  I shall always be grateful to Val for my lovely boy: even though his untimely death has broken my heart.

“A dog may not make up the whole of life – but life doesn’t seem whole without one.”

Mary

Remembering Mattie (by Val)
 
The day Mattie came down from the pound (photo left) - he was such a sorry sight, matted, thin and very scared with empty eyes ... so I went to task on him and it took me all day to get his matted coat back into some glory.  I remember that day well as Vikki came home from work and she thought I had another dog on the floor as well as the one I was grooming (photo right)?  Mattie his name and when first with us he was Mattie to look at; but what a lovely boy he turned out to be.
He had a lovely deep grey merle to him and under all that matt he was alive with fleas, which we sorted so they all went along with his previous bad life.  He would never have to endure a horrible life again; he was safe at last and from that day on his life changed for the better.  

I remember Mary contacting me and she was interested in a younger dog but I told her about Mattie and she originally said no as he was a bit older than what she wanted ... but after a few days Mary called me back and arranged to come and see Mattie, I knew that once she had met him he would be going home with her - and yes he did.  Mattie had a wonderful time with Mary although shorter than we hoped for but he was treated to the life of total love - he needed nothing - he had Mary.  I was devastated when I heard the news that Mattie had died, but from the original hell hole he must have lived in at least he met Mary and Valgrays and had the best time of his life.  To Mary our sincere sympathy goes to you in the loss of Mattie - but also a toast to you for giving Mattie a wonderful year which must have been paradise.
 
love Val xx

Charlie 1995 - 2009

Charlie came into my life in June 2002 when I visited the NCDL (Dogs Trust) in Canterbury to look at the possibility of rehoming a dog. I was immediately drawn to her, having had a fairly difficult Border Collie as a family pet as a child.  Charlie had been transferred from the NCDL in Shoreham, had had 7 different homes, bitten every member of every household she had been in, and they had labelled her “unrehomeable”.  And yet she seemed such a sweetie, rolling over onto her back to be fussed, and so affectionate.  Don’t be fooled, the NCDL staff said…..

With my previous experience of a troubled Border Collie, I thought I could take Charlie on.  The NCDL had named her A.R.Charlie (A Right Charlie!) and advised me, “Charlie has a dislike for children and must be kept under control in public places”. When I read her vaccination record it showed that she had spent part of her early life with Valgrays, and most of the rest with the NCDL.

A challenging few months followed with several near misses as Charlie tried to launch herself indiscriminately at people to bite them whilst out on walks.  Expert advice was sought from a dog behaviourist who specialised in Border Collies, and gradually we worked through her problems.  Whilst never completely “cured”, I felt Charlie and I understood each other – I knew what set her off, and the kind of people she didn’t like. Anyone with a dog was fine – anyone without could potentially be a target!  She gradually calmed down more and more and incidents became less frequent.

Her favourite place was either under or on my bed – moving the pillows and duvet until she was snuggled up and comfortable.  She was wonderfully affectionate but had such character and spirit.  She liked to be top dog with the other dogs we walked with, and was quite choosy about who she wanted to play with.  She loved people (despite the random launching!) and adored being stroked, fussed and cuddled.

In June 2009 at the age of 14 Charlie very suddenly became ill and deteriorated rapidly.  I had to make the decision to have her put to sleep.  It was one of the worst days of my life.  I miss her so much, she meant the world to me.  I am so glad we found each other.  Sleep well Charlie, love always xxxxx

 (02/09/2009)

BILLY adopted from Valgrays July 1997

I picked up a then 10 month old border collie pup from Valgrays in July 1997 called Billy. He passed away in early December 2007 with congestive heart failure but we will never forget him. He developed into a lovely dog and always had a great temperament and personality. He also became an excellent house dog and had the run of the house, came on several holidays to Ireland, the Lake District and Cornwall. He always had a heart murmur but lived a full and eventful life until he developed an enlarged heart in his last few months. Billy had his 1st heart attack in May 2007 out playing with a whippet. He survived several other attacks but led a good quality life in between on heart & lung medication. One of the attached pictures is during the summer of 2007 when he had been diagnosed by the vet as having a limited life span, we were determined he would live life to the full in the twilight of his last few months.  We brought him to a lovely seaside town called Lymington near Southampton and the Isle of Wight.  We had a lovely day there and he really enjoyed a long walk in the nature reserve. He had many more days like that while in his last few months and would never let his heart problem get him down until the very last week of his life.  Billy possessed exceptional resilience and spirit, typical of his breed,

We would like to thank you for giving us Billy and it's wonderful to see you still doing great work for collies. They have always been special to me since I had Tara on my father's farm in Ireland from a 15 year old boy and he lived almost 17 years.

 Billy was one of the family and even much loved by our neighbours who built a hatch in the fence for him to come and visit. They are a Muslin family and the mother was fearful of dogs before she met Billy. When he died she cried. Same with Karen's parents who loved him lots too. He won a lot of people over with his friendly nature and boisterous antics, really very funny sometimes!  I made up the top picture in a frame as a Christmas memoir for my wife Karen who was besotted with Billy. It depicts him throughout the years since the time I collected him from Val in 1997!

Billy RIP Died  8th December 2007

By:   Francis Mulleady

(Francis/Shirley 28/12/07)

BREEZE  adopted from Valgrays April 1994

'April Fool of Valgrays'

Breeze died on the 29th January and I miss her so much, she was - out of all the dogs I have ever owned - my soulmate,
14 years ago Val rang me to say she had 2 dogs for me to look at.  When I walked into her kitchen this little tri-colour pup was jumping up at her table, she looked just like a gremlin!  I saw the other collie Val had but I just fell in love with this little person.  The date was 1st April so of course I had to call her April Fool of Valgray.  The name Breeze came into my head, so that was that - I had lost my heart!
She took to agility like the proverbial duck to water, my first fast collie and what fun we had.  She even won us into Senior.  Her first show was a little frantic though.  She flew the A frame, didn't complete the weaves (well there was a tunnel after them) and ran round in circles but we finished the course more or less together.
She was my shadow, coming with me everywhere, never wanting to be left behind, sitting in her cage in the van looking very smug, and whenever I had a bout of road rage she would add her voice to mine.  The mornings of shows she would be first out of the door - no way would she be left behind.
Breeze enjoyed her life to the full and could still run faster than me in the veteran classes, although I could only enter her in jumping classes because she took to jumping from the top of the (lowered) A frame.
Last year she had a couple of strokes but recovered each time but I knew we were on borrowed time.  In January she went off her food and started to be sick and she became very weak in her back legs.  She had a blood test and the vet said her kidneys were failing and she had maybe 2 to 3 days left. The next day she couldn't walk and had no control over her bladder.  She laid down on the sofa and when I sat beside her she looked at me and pressed her head against me - she had had enough.
I laid her on my lap and gave her a sedative so that she would fall asleep.  We had a lovely cuddle and I took her to the vets.  She died very peacefully.  I had done the very thing I had always dreaded, but the very best thing for Breeze.
My soul mate I love you and will always miss you.
by Sandra Clancy

(Sandra/Shirley 28/06/08)

Fergus did not come from Valgrays, but Val has spoken to the lovely owners at length (trying to help) about his extreme behaviours.  Sadly the only kind thing was to give Fergus peace.  Such a difficult and heartbreaking decision, but such a brave one too.  Fergus is now stress free and is not struggling in life any more. 

All of us at Valgrays send our throughts to this family and to Fergus who is now at peace.  Rest easy dear boy.  

They will not go quietly – the pets who’ve shared our lives,

In subtle ways they let us know their spirits still survive.

Old habits still can make us think we hear them at the door,

Or step back when we drop a tasty morsel on the floor.

Our feet still go around the place the food dish used to be,

And sometimes coming home at night we miss them terribly.

And although time may bring new friends and a new food dish to fill,

That one place in our hearts belongs to them .. and always will.

Author Unknown

(Shirley&Val 04/07/2008)

GEM (Just a Gem of Valgrays)  adopted from Valgrays 1994 - sadly passed away 8th November, 2008

Fiona Bradley's lovely dog Gem suddenly passed away on Saturday night 8th November, 2008 at the age of almost 14 years.  Gem was never an agility or obedience star, but she was a total cuddle bun and we thank Fiona for giving her such a lovely life.  Rest easy Gem .. all at Valgrays are thinking of you and Fiona at this time

(14/11/08)

GEORGE (Paw George of Valgrays)  adopted from Valgrays 1993 - sadly passed away September, 2008 

News has just arrived of Sue Loves beautiful Valgrays dog who has passed away at the wonderful age of 16 years.  Sue had such fun with George and Sue's daughter also did so very well in juniors with him.  Paw George of Valgrays rest in peace -we at Valgrays are all thinking of you at this sad time.... and wish to thank you for giving him such a wonderful happy life.

(Val 29/10/08)

JESSIE  (Snomiss Jessica of Valgrays)  adopted from Valgrays 1994 - sadly passed away  October, 2008
 
 

I remember not so long ago going to the Diamond Riding Centre with this lovely white ball of fluff and saying to Simon's mum: 'Ive got just the collie for your son' and she looked at me to say 'no thanks'.  Yet somehow at the end of the day Jessica went home with the Tappin family and her life with Simon.   The pair were inseparable, Simon trained Jess to Agility and she took to this like a duck to water and together they reached top class standard in agility.  They qualified many times for Crufts and Olympia, the wins are so many to mention.  So to Simon, thank you for giving Jess a wonderful loving home and my thoughts are with you and your family at this very very sad time.  Another wonderful collie now at peace at rainbow bridge ..

Simon had said that Jess was his best friend for 15 years and the most loyal dog anyone could have wished for. 

(Val 13/10/08)

Adopted from Valgrays 1991

'Krazy Katie of Valgrays'

NOT ANOTHER BLACK AND WHITE!!

As I meet people on the ‘agility circuit’ and at various other canine events, the above comment is often heard. The Border Collie has become so much a part of our competitive lives that some people almost seem to resent them. I am writing this to explain why, after owning Golden Retrievers and various cross breeds, Katie convinced me that to be the partner of such a versatile and intelligent breed is so much fun that not only do we now have ‘another black and white ’organising our lives for us, but three ..... Jess, Phoebe and her daughter Zoe !!

Katie came into my life at the age of eight months, re-homed to me by Val Phillips of Valgrays collie rescue. Knowing I was looking for another dog, Val showed me a photo of a cute black and white pup when we met at Crufts in 1991.  I didn’t want a collie and certainly not an almost completely black one but ...... from the moment Katie arrived at home ‘on trial’ she became part of the family. Within half an hour she had organised the boys into playing football and was showing her skill as a goalkeeper!  The transfer fee was paid and she joined the Southlawn pack.

At the age of twelve months, having done some basic obedience, we started agility classes and instantly this became the love of her life. Val must have known more about her than I thought when she named her Krazy Katie as she has very strong ideas about who is in charge on an agility course! She has earned more eliminations than all the other dogs I have owned put together. On the occasions she allows me to work with her, she is brilliant. She won one novice class in 1992 and a second in 1993 and worked at senior level until 1999. She qualified for many major finals and taught my son Simon how to follow her around a junior course, sometimes with great success. In 1996 she won the KCJO  ‘Agility dog of the year’ competition but was unable to take her place in the final at Crufts. Her kennel mate Jess had also qualified and went in her stead and after a few hints from Katie on how to handle a human, Jess and Simon won the final in great style. Simon has learned a great deal about handling a collie from Katie!!   She is happy to work agility with anyone who will take her onto a course. A favourite moment was when Emma, probably aged about five at the time, sneaked off with her round my intermediate agility course which I was due to judge the next day and produced a clear round, whilst I had been eliminated  twice  whilst trying the course out!  At the time of writing this Kate is now ten years old and working in veteran agility classes with the same ‘all or nothing’ approach as usual. She was eliminated with Simon in a class in March and won one with me at Watford this month!!

In 1993, Katie learned how to play flyball and although enjoying it, she doesn’t have the ‘Krazy’ attitude to this ball game which so many other black and whites do — strange considering how she loves agility. Nonetheless, she has the BFA title of Flyball dog and has collected various trophies and rosettes as a member of the Tigers and Knights flyball teams.  In 1997, she taught my younger son Graham how to play flyball and we had great fun entering a competition as the ‘Tappin Tigers’, a team made up completely of our family members and dogs, which recorded the creditable time of 21.64 seconds.

Katie is a willing partner in any enterprise. In 1994 she and Simon won a KCJO obedience competition in Bath and then became a silver medal winner with him in the Midlands KCJO obedience team at Crufts in 1995. She much prefers heelwork at fast pace and so when we entered the fun heelwork to music competition at the Midland Border Collie Club, the Gay Gordons was a perfect choice of music for her although leaving me more than a little red in the face !

In 1995 I decided that we might enjoy an experience new to both of us, working trials. Katie agreed and qualified CDex at her first trial in Tewkesbury. Unfortunately, a shoulder injury meant the six foot scale was too difficult for her to jump on a regular basis so she retired from trials and we tried sheep work!  In Katie’s mind this nearly equalled agility as ‘best activity’.

Her sire (Vic – ISDS 151487) was a semi-finalist in ‘One man and his dog ’ and his daughter seemed to know quite instinctively how to work sheep. We had great fun having lessons with Katie Cropper, who lived quite near to us but having no sheep of my own to work meant that we did not carry on with this as I felt it was not fair to Kate to only let her work on the odd occasion.

In 1996, I heard of a ‘Three day event for dogs’ that was being run at the Spillers Festival of Working Dogs. Needing an incentive to get fit again after recent surgery, I decided Katie and I would enter this. The agility and obedience sections seemed possible but could I run round a cross country course with a Krazy Katie?  The answer was, that after two months of early morning jogging around the local playing field desperately hoping that no one was watching me as I pleaded with Kate to ‘wait while I catch up’ YES I COULD!   Katie loved it and at the Festival we came second overall. I’m sure Katie thought we could have won if I’d run faster. I think it was her crooked sits in the heelwork section that made the difference but she’d say that she always sits that way!!  

Katie achieved her Midland Border Collie gold utility award in 1996 and through the club we met and enjoyed the company of many other collie owners.  She also has her gold Kennel Club Good Citizen award to be proud of.

Kate is a registered PAT dog and for many years has loved and offered her paw to residents of local old folks homes. She is not a ‘cuddly’ dog, needing her own space around her, but with true Border Collie intuition she becomes a real softy on ‘PAT’ days, enjoying herself greatly. (I think it’s the extra food ---- jam scones with cream are her favourite !).  One of the most touching comments I’ve heard was from a quiet and withdrawn elderly lady who rarely spoke to anyone. As she stroked Katie’s head she said  “Today is my special day, it’s my Katie day” .

I am very lucky, because for me every day is a Katie day. As you can see, we have had many wonderful times together. 

Rosemary Tappin, April 2000

KRAZY KATIE OF VALGRAY

Some time ago, I acquired a new dog,

Gentle and calm, mostly slept like a log!

Lovely I thought, she is just right for me,

steady and calm to learn AGIL-IT-Y.

Oh Krazy Katie, who gave you your name?

Is it Val Phillips* that we should blame?

For Krazy you are and crazy you’ll be,

now you’ve learnt about AGIL-IT-Y.

Steady and calm have gone by the board,

and countless eliminations we have scored!

When will you learn to listen to me?

It’s a partnership game this AGIL-IT-Y!

At show after show, we have tried and tried,

and now you wear a red rosette with pride.

A clear round today, you and me!

And a win in Novice AGIL-IT-Y!

July 1992

*  Val Phillips of Valgrays Border Collie Rescue

(Shirley/Rosemary 21/12/07)

KERRY  adopted from Valgrays January 1996

CLICK HERE TO SEE MORE PHOTOS OF KERRY

My mother and I first met Kerry on a Saturday afternoon in the first week of 1996, when he bounded out into Val’s sitting room and landed as a huge ball of fluff at our feet.  We were struck by the four enormous paws he had at the end of his little legs, even at five months – Val said that this suggested he would be a big dog, and she wasn’t to be proved wrong.  He looked up at us with two huge brown eyes, tongue sticking out of the corner of his mouth and tail wagging; and there was no way we were ever going to go back home on our own!

Not that those first few weeks and months were always easy.  We’d not only got ourselves a fabulously gorgeous new puppy, but we’d got a ball of energy.  This was quite a culture shock after having spent the previous eight years in the company of a docile little girl.  Kerry hadn’t been mistreated in his previous homes, but it was quite clear that he had been a little bit neglected – this manifested itself most obviously in the way he just exploded into furious activity at 6pm every night for about three weeks, running madly around the ground floor of the house, up the stairs round the first floor, back down and repeated this all over again several times until he wore himself out.  Clearly, this was the time he had been programmed to expect to play.  We slowly started to train him out of this behaviour by walking for miles around 6pm every night! 

Having arrived in our house in a bitterly cold and snowy January, he became accustomed to walking across the iced over garden pond.  We thought nothing of this until he decided to walk over it again later in the month when the thaw had taken place…. this is my first memory of him swimming, and perhaps explains why this was never his favourite leisure activity!

That puppyish behaviour gave way to a glorious adolescence, adulthood and old age.  Kerry remained my mum’s loyal and faithful companion after I got married and left home, but he also became loved by all who came into contact with him.  He had such a gentle and loving nature that even people who were scared of dogs, or professed not to like dogs, grew to love Kerry over time…. he would never take no for an answer where his affections were concerned.  His nose became nicknamed the battering ram, as he would badger anyone sitting in an armchair for a rub behind the ears or a tickle on the tum.  It’s remarkable how many phone calls, text messages, emails and cards we received when we lost him – he seemed to touch the heart of just about everyone who he encountered (apart, perhaps, from the man who was hassling my mother on her front door step one day, whose trouser leg he touched instead!). 

When we were out, he was always on the go, and would play ball for ages – right up virtually until the end.  He loved his car rides, because they almost always ended up somewhere exciting where things like balls, pigeons and squirrels could be chased.  Right through his life, walks would last for hours, taking in all manner of people and other dogs.  I’m sure his friend, Meg the Alsatian, and the other regulars from the park are wondering where he has gone. 

For three years after I got married, mum and Kerry lived across the road from my wife and me in a quiet little cul-de-sac, and he became especially blessed as he now had two homes just 5 seconds apart!  He was rarely on his own.  He became the neighbourhood dog, and would often wander from garden to garden visiting all the neighbours whilst mum gardened in the front of the house.  I think they feel his loss almost as acutely as we do.  When we moved to a much larger house about fifteen minutes down the road, he remained a constant visitor and I’ll never forget the look of wonder on his little face the first time he stepped out into our new, very large and very grassy garden!  I always called in on them on my way to and from work, and loved my Kerry-time – usually being presented with a different toy to play with before I had stepped through the front door. 

Not only did he come on family holidays, he became the very heart of them, with nothing ever being done that might spoil his enjoyment.  He was so well travelled too, taking in Ireland, the Lake District, Gloucestershire (twice) and Guernsey (six times).  They were some of the best times. 

When I was a child I dreamed and fantasised about having a dog – but our hectic family life in those days didn’t really allow for properly looking after one.  In recent times, before he became ill, I had often mused on how Kerry was the perfect dog of those childhood daydreams.  He grew into a fine boy, who was faithful, loving and beautiful.  In many ways, it was fortunate that the cancer inside him had been growing unnoticed – it turned out to be inoperable anyway – and it meant that his decline was so speedy in the end that he didn’t lose any of his shape or bulk, and right up until the last day he looked just like the Kerry we had always known and loved so dearly and tenderly.  We nursed him for eleven fairly traumatic days after his big operation, and he’d recovered enough strength on the fifth day for us to enjoy a day together which was just like it had always been – some gentle ball catching in my garden, and lots of sniffing of plants and cocking of legs!  The photos from that day will remain a treasure to us. 

The bond of love between Kerry and my mum was so evident in those last ten days as she began with the intention of sleeping downstairs with him, and ended up sleeping on the floor with him.  He died on the 19^th May 2008, and was cremated on 24^th May.  His ashes will be scattered between the places in our gardens which he loved so much. 

I have the firm belief that Kerry is being looked after right now on the other side by my dad and our other collie.  One day we’ll play together again. 

Sleep tight, my big baby boy – you’ll never be forgotten. 

By Paul and Iris Mould

Paul/Shirley 10/06/2008)

MAX  adopted from Valgrays 1995

Max came to us from Valgrays, I think it was in 1995 and he died after 10 happy years with us in Whiteley Village.

It is along time ago and Val may not remember him, he came from Devon and for some reason he was also known as Marty Feldman.  He came to us in 1995 and we said goodbye to him in February 2007. 

He was a lovely lad and a very popular chap and will always be in our memory.  He had this poem in the Whiteley Village Magazine and I thought others might like to read this farewell to him.

A Poem For Max

The Legacy

When humans die, they make a will

To leave their homes and all they have to those they love.

I to, would make a will if I could write.

To some poor wistful, lonely stray, I leave my happy home.

My dish, my cosy bed, my cushioned chair, my toy.

The well loved lap, the gentle stroking hand, the loving voice,

The place I made in someone’s heart.

The love that at last could help me to a peaceful, painless end,

Held in loving arms.

If I should die, Oh do not say,

“No more a pet I’ll have, to grieve me by its loss”

Seek out some lonely, unloved dog

And give my place to him.

This is the legacy I leave behind –

Tis all I have to give.

-author unknown

 by Ian Plumb

(Ian/Shirley 21/05/2008)

I have just received some terribly sad news, my mums beloved Meisha has passed away.
12 years ago I went off with one of my friends to view Meisha for my mum, at that time my mum did not want another sammie .. so off I went, fell in love with Meisha and came back with her!  My mum was standing outside with her neighbour Pam as I pulled up - oh dear I could see on her face that she did not look happy!!  So out of the van Meisha jumped; I gave the lead to mum to hold and ran as fast as I could!  From that day onwards mum fell in love with Meisha.  Sadly after 5 years of having Meisha, mum suffered a stroke and I had to try and nurse her as well as look after all of mums cats and dogs.
 
One day I was out driving and there, walking along the road, was this lady and she had a sammie with her; I stopped the van and spoke to her saying does she know of anyone who may be interested in adopting Meisha.  Anyway that night Mickie phoned me to say her and her hubby would love to see Meisha and meet my mum.  Mum was very upset but realised that I just could not look after everything so Meisha went off to Oxted with Mickie and her husband.  Mickie and her husband were such a lovely couple, both retired and lived in Oxted, Surrey and also had a place in France.  I went and saw Meisha and if I remember correctly, I think Meisha came to see my mum as well.
 
So over the years Meisha lived in France and England.  She was so loved by Mickie and her family and had a wonderful life with them.  I kept in touch and we emailed each other many times.  Meisha had a very busy life and I could not have wished for a happier place for her to have been.  Mickie, her husband and family loved Meisha to bits, Meisha had such a lovely sunny smiley face that who ever met her could not help but love her.
 
My thoughts are with you both, and I would like to thank you so much for giving Meisha the wonderful happy, much loved, life she had with you both.
 
This is now an end to the chapter of my mums pets, they have all now passed away and have joined my mum at Rainbow Bridge.
 
Be happy Meisha you are now with mum, Timmy, Tyler and all your other doggie friends.
 
love you for ever
 
val and vikki.

(Val 10/09/2008)

NUALA adopted from Valgrays 2007

Beautiful little Nuala……if I had owned you from a puppy then you would have still been here with me now. I fell in love with you too quickly which broke my heart.

Next time around things will be very different and that is a promise, and until then enjoy your new surroundings…Trixie will take good care of you.

Loads of love … Dad  (Ray)

(Ray/Shirley 19/12/2007)

PIP  in Valgrays 2009

It is with great sadness and heavy heart that we have had to let Pip go to rainbow bridge.  This was a decision we have not taken lightly and many tears have been shed over this dear girl.
Sadly Pip's previous life (crated, tormented and being in a total loveless place at the scrap yard - photo top right) took its toll on her and she was a very stressed dog in the real world.  Her comfort zone was a crate!!  She simply did not know how to mix or be friendly with people or other dogs and the longer we had her the worse situations became.  No amount of love or care could help dear Pip to cope.  We took serious advice from many vets and experienced dog handlers.  All we can say is that Pip had a lovely time here (see photo left and bottom right), she experienced freedom, was loved. fed and well cared for.  Pip is the first dog we have been unable to help for a long time, and we all feel her loss deeply.  All we can say now is that our dear Pip is in Peace, free from torment - and she will never ever be forgotten.
 
We would like to thank the many kind folk who offered Pip a home; but with so many deep rooted, man made problems in her it was just unfair to Pip to be passed on.

A Dogs Soul

Author Unknown

A Dogs Soul

Every dog must have a soul
Somewhere deep inside
Where all his hurts and grievances
Are buried with his pride.
Where he decides the good and bad,
The wrong way from the right,
And where his judgement carefully
Is hidden from our sight.
A dog must have a secret place
Where every thought abides,
A sort of close acquaintance that
He trusts in and confides.
And when accused unjustly for
Himself, He cannot speak,
Rebuked, He finds within his soul
The comfort he must seek.
He'll love, tho'he is unloved,
And he'll serve tho'badly used,
And one kind word will wipe away
The times when he's abused.
Altho' his heart may break in two
His love will still be whole,
Because God gave to every dog
An understanding Soul!

(03/06/09)

QUINCY adopted from Valgrays at 12 weeks old in 1994  - sadly passed away  27th September, 2008 

Coming back from holiday and catching up on the news I was so upset to hear the loss of Lyn's Quincy.  I just cannot believe all those years have gone so quickly.  I remember Lynda coming up to me to get Quincy he was a tiny white ball of fluff and she fell in love with him.  He became a loving pet to Lynda and John although he tried a bit of agility, he preferred to lay on the settee.  As he got older his coat got longer and curly and we both thought he was a cross with a Sheep!!!!!  Dear quincy so kind not a nasty bone in his body, loved by so many.
 
My thoughts are with you Lynda and of course John and to Quincy's friends who must miss him so much .. he is now at peace on that lovely settee over in Rainbow Bridge.
 
It's just a little, but means alot
To say dear friend, I haven't forgot
 
The years have gone, the tears now shed
Quincy's bed an empty space,
But his spirit is now in a happy place.
 
VAL

From Lynda:   Have had to have Quincy put to sleep today.  Unfortunately when they took blood tests it was not conclusive so the vets did a scan and they found that he had a very large tumour on his spleen.  The vets could not find that it was bleeding and still were not sure why he was anaemic.   We had three options, one was for the vets to operate and remove the spleen but this is a major operation and at 14 years we felt it was not fair to put Quincy through it.  They could have put him on steroids to see if that helped with the anaemia but did not hold out much hope so we took the third option.  Quincy until this morning was very happy and healthy but he was not happy today and was not really ‘with it’, we did not want him to suffer and felt if we took either of the other two options this would cause him to suffer and he would not be such a happy fellow.

We are missing him very much and still cannot believe he has gone

Rest in peace my boy

(Shirley 27/09/08)

Reggie  1995 - 2009

Reggie was Keith's beloved dog; estimated age between 12 and 14. Reg was a stray from the Birmingham  area and some how he got handed into the RSPCA at Godstone, but how no one knows!!!   Keith went, saw him and brought him home.  Keith had Reg around 4 years before we met and in the last 6 years I had been part of Reg's life as he came to live with me when keith and I moved into together.
 
Reg could be a real grumpy dog!!!  He did not like being groomed, not like his nails being cut, liked his own way and always went in another direction to the way you wanted to walk.  His love was my van and he would sleep in that all day long; perhaps that is how he came to be in Surrey - he got in someone's car?  But we loved him and miss him terribly.
 
So thank you Reg for being such a grand faithful dog and bringing Keith into my life; I will never forget you and I am sure your Dad will grieve for you for many months.  Reg is at rainbow bridge now - happy - and without anymore pain .....
 
God Bless you
 
love  .....   Mum and Dad  xxx

Dear Riley

Just  ONE  phone call and just  ONE  chance was all he needed

No one came forward

Riley was pts on Monday 14^th January 2008 by the family who owned him

(Val 17/01/2008)

RORY  'Red Rory of Valgrays'  adopted from Valgrays April 1999 - sadly passed away December 2008

It is with great sadness that Wendy had to say goodbye to her beloved Rory.  Rory came into valgrays as a stray, picked up by the warden with another collie.  Wendy saw Rory and decided no at that time, but it did not take long for her to pop ,back over and took Rory back to Harlow to spend a happy, wonderfully fulfilled life.
 
Rory suffered with bouts of sore feet and lost his toenails occasionally, the vet got it under control but after a few years his immune system broke down.
 
Poor wendy will be lost without her little boy, but we are thinking of her at this really sad time.

Rest easy Rory .. all at Valgrays are thinking of you and Wendy at this time                                                          (Val 05/12/08)

TESS adopted from Valgrays 1998

Tess came to us from Valgrays almost 10 years ago along with her pup, Nell (who will be 10 on 1st March 2008).  Tess had lost a leg due to a thrombosis and still she gave us so much fun and love.

I am afraid that the sad news is that Tess died on Thursday night (3^rd January, 2008).   She was taken very ill late Tuesday evening with what seems to have been a severe gastric infection.   We took her to the overnight vet, who kept her in, and the next day she transferred to our regular vet who treated her with antibiotics and intravenous liquids.   We did have hopes that she was improving but she had a major attack overnight and was no longer strong enough to fight it off.   Annette took the 'phone call Friday morning to say that she had gone.

As you will understand, we are greatly saddened, but in time we will come to remember all the good times we had with her: there is only one immortality, and that is to be remembered by those who have loved and known you in life, and she will be with us for as long as we are here.

Nell is rather lost and lonely looking, but getting lots of love and attention.   To anyone who is looking at rehoming a dog that has lost a leg or who has a dog that has to have an operation, don't give up on that dog!

I can truthfully say that Tess had a good and fun filled life with us, and gave back many, many times over everything we gave her.

By:   Annette, Michael and Nathan

(Shirley 06/01/2008)

I have just learnt that Val's beautiful TIlly has passed away at the wonderful age of 16 years.  Val and Vikki had such fun with Tilly, and she was so loved. 

Tilly has been poorly for a while, but she was coping well until the last few days.  Sadly Val knew it was time and at 12.15 on 3rd April, 2009 Val had to do that kindest thing we can for our loved dogs. 

Rest Easy dear Tilly and lots of love and hugs to Val, Vikki and Keith at this sad time... 

luv from Shirley xx 

Condolences from others;

I am so sorry to hear about Tilly, she was so lovely. It was my pleasure to groom her, thank you for letting me ... Luv 'n' hugs from Gina, John, Libby and the Gang xxxxxx

Tilly will be running as fast as the wind with Thomas ... Pat xx

Remember the happy times and you gave her a wonderful life ... Sarah

So sorry Val, I am still struggling at times over Tiff.  They were so very special ... Mandy

So sorry to hear your sad news, its awful losing Tilly after all those years. Your pets are so special and part of the family and thats why its so sad ... Jenni xxxx

So sorry, she was a star ... Lin x

Tilly the Terror of Valgrays 12/01/94 to 03/04/09

With very heavy heart I had to say goodbye to my dear beloved Tilly,  she spent 15 years with me and Vikki and what a huge hole this has left.  Last August  (08) we were told she had heart failure and would only last 2 weeks. 8 months extra we had with her and made every day a magic day.  She was always a fast thinking collie and never had a days illness, she even walked her last walk into the vets.  Vikki came in early morning before going to work and sat with her and said her goodbyes as we all knew that the time had arrived.
 
I had Tilly when she was a pup of 8 weeks from Sara Boxall, I remember the day well - it was Mid Downs agility show and Sara brought 3 pups to the show .. in the car park Sara had 3 brown and white pups in her arms and said to me 'which one do you like Val', bearing in mind I was not wanting another dog as I was just going through my marriage break-up and felt low .. so I just said if I liked one it would be that one (Tilly).  With that she was put into my arms and the rest is now a wonderful history.  I came home with a pup - and yes she lived up to her colour red; flame temper, hot headed, a terror on 4 legs .. but I loved her - she was home to stay with me and Vikki, and it gave me something else to think about.  Little did I realise what an adventure I would have in being her mum.....
 
Her first 2 years we did not do very much I played a bit at Nancy Hudson agility school, but my heart was not in competing at that time.  Time went by and Vikki and I started to train her in our field.  Next thing Vikki was competing and then qualified Tilly for the Crufts Juniors - she eventually ended up taking Tilly to Crufts 4/5 times and Tilly and Vikki's best was 2nd place.  She competed around the shows with me and eventually became a Senior at 5 years old.
 
Tilly was NOT one of the most greatest dogs to have amongst other bitches and we had many a fight with me getting her off the other dogs .. she took this temperament from her dad JACK THE BASTARD (as Sara called him)  The biggest fight we had was when Tilly attacked my lovely white collie Tessa and with the result of that fight I had to have Tessa put to sleep.  I did not speak or look at Tilly for weeks .. I generally hated her .. but time heals and Tilly took up being the boss in our household of dogs and that is where she stayed right up till the end.
 
Tilly taught me a lot she was my saviour during my bad days - she showed Vikki how to get eliminated at shows - she taught me that being red in colour she did have that naughty way about her and I had to be on my toes with her around other dogs, but I never gave up on her .. she was my partner, my friend and Vikki's best mate as well.
 
Keith my partner had known Tilly for 5 years and he was so upset when he came to the vets with me that I ended up consoling him more than thinking about how upset I was .. bless him.

So to reflect on Tilly's life she had a wonderful time - and when the time was right I allowed her with dignity to fall asleep in my arms and slowly she went peacefully to Rainbow Bridge.

Thank you Sara for giving Tilly to me I had the most wonderful time with her.  She was my special girl. Tilly you will be running with your friends now and terrorising them.  Say 'hi' to Tom, Tessa, Abby, George, Meg and Cree .. all my dogs that I have loved and lost, but my heart is always with them.
 
Nite nite my Tilly the Terror I will love you for ever ... your mum xxxxx Val

TRIX  adopted from Valgrays 1997 - sadly passed away 11th November, 2008

Back in the spring of 1997 we sadly lost our old rescued collie cross “Patch” at the grand age of eighteen and a half.  This left his young friend Poppy (a rescue collie cross bitch from Lissington near Lincoln) alone; so we made enquiries though Valgrays Collie Rescue and the only dog at the time in Lincolnshire was a two year old collie bitch on a farm in the Vale Of Belvoir near Grantham in Lincolnshire.  We arranged to go look and we brought her home.  She had lived outside in a kennel and had two litters of pups.  Trix was very gentle but had a very keen eye, too keen for working sheep we were told.  She settled into life in a home, although at times her obsessive behaviours could be very challenging; especially where cats were concerned!  One of her favourite hobbies was watching the guinea pigs ! We persevered and she went to obedience training where she did very well apart from the retrieve, she never would present the article, she would throw whatever it was at you, highly amusing to us and for her!! We did try agility with her but she could never manage to jump very high, we later found out she had hip dysplacia. Not that you would ever know it from the way she ran about and loved to play with a ball or squeaky. She always went to agility shows with us over the last 8 years as we added to our doggy family with two poodles, and our daughters little collie cross, even though she couldn’t compete (also as she just got too over excited).  Trix enjoyed many camping trips, holidays, days away in our caravan and had everything a dog could want. About 9 months ago she had been diagnosed with severe arthritis in her left back knee and had the beginnings of spondylosis in her spine, but she was still enjoying life right up until the week before she died.  She suddenly became ill at the beginning of November 2007 and sadly while having tests our vet discovered she had two large tumours in her bladder and she would not have long to live and not have a very good quality of life, so we made the extremely hard choice to let her go peacefully while still under the anaesthetic.  She had also become very anaemic as her body tried to fight the aggressive cancer. She died on rememberance day Nov 11 2008, aged 10 years.  We will always remember that dear sweet natured girl, and thank you Valgrays for making it possible to share our lives with such a lovely collie girl “Trix”

From Janet, Steve, Michael and Fiona Mckenna  and all trixs  doggy friends

(12/12/08)

TRIXIE adopted from Valgrays 1997

Shortly after losing my second dog Trudie, I was put in touch with Val, and that very same dark November night back in 1997 I drove over there to see a beautiful little 2yr old collie, one of 40 dogs destined for destruction but thankfully rescued by Val. The minute she was shown to me I fell in love with her, and I did not expect to be allowed to take her home with me right there and then.

Trixie really was something special, and no matter how many dogs I’d had prior to her, and no matter how many dogs I have in the future, she will always remain that way. Much much more than just a dog, she was a lifelong companion for nearly 10 years, and in all honestly and in all that time, not once did she ever display any kind of aggression to either me or anyone else.  She knew when I was feeling slightly under the weather and come over for a cuddle.

Trixie’s favourite pastime was swimming and anywhere there was water then she would be there. The last 18 months of her life were spent swimming regularly at Greyfriars, which really did help her arthritic legs and also boost her morale.

She literally followed me everywhere, even into the loo, and I have lost count of all the different holidays we had spent together down in Devon and Wiltshire.

My Mother, departed since 1973, she has the job of minding all my pets and I just know that Trixie will be one of the first to come and meet me when my time is up.

Meanwhile Treeks, enjoy your new surroundings and be sure to wait for me please.

Lots of love … Dad (Ray)

                                                                                                                                                                                                       (Ray/Shirley 4/1/2008)

TYLER  adopted by Val's Mum (Dot) 

Tyler came into our life in the year DOT .. he and his friend were brought to us to home.  Tyler and his pal were homed to a pub in Merstham, but sadly Tyler was returned .. because he had become a champion dart catcher!!!   He would leap into the air and catch the darts mid flight to the dartboard!  They were so worried he was going to be injured by this 'game' that he came back to Valgrays where my dear mum fell in love with him and claimed him for herself.  His friend stayed in the pub, and she is still happy.
 
Tyler was a fab collie, always on the go, loved his toys, ran the garden in a figure of eight and generally drove my mum insane .. but she loved him to bits .. his only problem he had was that he did not like cats or small dogs .. but mum worked around that.
Sadly when mum had her stroke everything was put on hold and I had to try and find someone for Tyler because he did not like my little papillions .. a distant friend I knew from agility days back in the 80's contacted me for an older dog and he came down to see Tyler.  Well the rest is history, Tyler was Dicks constant friend he was a good family dog and protected them all with zest!!!!!!!
 
A few weeks back I had a call from Dick and he said that Tyler was very unwell and very old and the kind thing for him now is to be pts.  Dick and Barbara his wife gave Tyler a wonderful  end.  His ashes are with the families other pets in the gardens of Dignity Pet Private Cemeteries and Crematoria grounds near Hook in Hampshire.
 
So I would just like to say; thank you Dick and Barbara and your family for giving Tyler a wonderful few years, I am sure my mum was waiting for him at those lovely gates with open arms.  He was certainly a dog who left an impact on everyones life.
 
Val phillips
 
Rest in peace Tyler with all your TOYS and give my mum a big lick, I have wonderful memories of you which will last with me a lifetime.  

(Val 31/05/2008)

Ziggy 'Ziggy Zoom of Valgrays' 1992 to 16th August 2008

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We have just received some very sad news that ZIGGY, owned and loved by Di Dunkley sadly passed away on Saturday after a short illness ...... Ziggy was 16 years old and Di gave her such a wonderful life.  She loved her agility and took Di to dizzy heights in agility, but foremost she was a wonderful friend and companion to Di.
 
We are all thinking of you at this sad time.
 
Val and all at Valgrays....

(Val 18/08/2008)

DOT PHILLIPS - 6th June 2009 remembrance

In loving memory of our dear Dot Phillips (12/10/16 to 06/06/04) -  5 years ago we lost a wonderful lady
 
'HEAVENLY GOOD BYE' 
 
Wings up to heaven
bid your good bye
Many who loved you
they surely did cry
 
Sitting today thinking
of you with a sigh
In memory at heart
your angel wings fly
 
Possible good bye
was meant to be said
Daily your footprints
in our hearts have led
 
You live on forever
held in endless a heart
Always walking with us
we are never apart

 

DOT PHILLIPS - 6th June 2008 remembrance

Today I am not sure if I wish to be sad or happy.  Today 4 years ago my mother passed away.
Today 4 years ago I lost a special person, a friend, a mother and a supporter. 
Today I ask that we all take a minute and look at our beloved Valgrays Dogs, because
Today I will sit and reflect on the years of love and dedication my mum gave me to help me build my dreams of building Valgrays rescue services, today I know she would be very proud of the continued work Valgrays is doing, she would be proud of me, I know that and this is what keeps me going, she would be proud of you the supporters and the adoptive owners, but she would be so proud of how the rescue dogs have been given a new start and new life. 
                                                   ****************
My Toast is to the many faithful dogs/pets we have lost, loved and owned; my mum will be looking after them all now, she will be looking down on us with her faithful cat Timmy and ALL THE DOGS WILL BE WITH HER and I know her words would be THANKYOU for sending me your beloved pets.
 
My Toast is to MY MUM ........... I love you and miss you very much.
 
love Val xxxx

Dorothy (Dot) Alice Phillips
12 October 1916 – 6 June 2004

It is with great sadness that I have to announce that Dorothy Alice Phillips, known to everyone as 'Dot' passed away peacefully on Sunday, 6 June after a five year battle against a crippling stroke. She has asked that at this time, instead of flowers, those who wish to can support her favourite charity, Valgray’s Border Collie and Animal Rescue.

Dot was the founder of the Valgray’s name, used first of all as the name for the Pet Shop in Whyteleafe – Surrey, that she kept with her husband Harry the name being derived from the names of their children Valerie and Graham.

The Valgray’s name has, in more recent years, become synonymous with Animal Rescue, and is linked, inextricably to the specialist knowledge and help needed with re-homing of Border Collies. The name is also well recognised and respected in the Agility Circuit throughout the United Kingdom and beyond.

Dot started of her 'Doggy' career breeding Samoyeds – a breed that she adored and had at least one with her at all times.

She was also known to everyone at the Purley and Coulsdon Agility Shows where she looked after the Judges, Stewards and Helpers, providing the much needed 'Cups of Tea', biscuits and a good chat.

When Dot’s daughter Val started to become interested in Border Collies, she was there as a supporter, helping with the strays that Val brought into their homes. Dot was the one that used to take care of the older rescue dogs and gave them a loving and dignified home for the remainder of their lives, however long or short that was to be and she will have been greeted by many wagging tails of her departed canine friends.

Dot had a passion for life, she seldom sat still for a moments rest, with the exception of course of Coronation Street, and the world just has to stop for 30 minutes every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.

Dot’s wish was to remain in her own home for as long as it was humanly possible and with the loving care of her daughter Val and the dedication of the Doctors, nurses and helpers from Social Services her wish came true and when Dot’s time eventually came on the afternoon of Sunday 6^th June she was in her own bed, surrounded by her family and Timmy, her faithful cat, was curled up on her lap.

She had fought long and hard for five years and was very tired and enough was enough, she just slipped peacefully away to join all of her other friends of the two and four legged variety on the other side.

Dot, our love goes with you and you will be in our minds and in our hearts for ever.

We promise to keep the good name of Valgrays alive and growing from strength to strength and to keep up the good work that you started.

Until we meet again, we can only say that we love you and we miss you.

(Val Phillips/Shirley 27/11/07)

It is with great sadness that I write to inform you that Lesley Olden's dear mum has passed away......many of you doggie folk will remember Lesley's mum travelling around the shows, holding coats, holding dogs, being Lesley's groom and telling Lesley what to do ...... Lesley's mum always called Lesley "Susan".
 
Diana (although will always be Lesleys mum to me) was a super lady, I go back at least 30 years in knowing her and I must admit she always had time to speak to me and always asked after the rescue dogs.  Although Lesley never had a rescue, she did many years ago have a little brown and white collie bitch from a litter we bred, and she called her Nedlo Teasey Weasey.  Lesley took her to the TOP OF AGILITY. Diana was always very fond of this little dog and at the Purley agility shows she always had long chats with my dear mum, along with many chats with me.
 
At this time of sorrow I would like to say to Lesley and family and friends we are all thinking of you and send our sincere condolences to you all.
 
We must also mention that it was a great honour to think at this time of such sadness that your family have wished that donations to be sent to:  Valgrays Border Collie Rescue and Isle of Wight Ambulance, I am sure that if you make contact with Lesley she will give you further information. 
 
Rest in Peace   Val x  

Sadly I have to let people know that Mum - the' Agility Mum' as she was fondly known to many in the agility world -passed away peacefully yesterday, the 16th February.  She was admitted to Southampton General Hospital with heart failure ten days ago and was due to have been discharged last Friday when she suffered a heart attack and became very poorly. She regained consciousness Saturday evening. I consider myself very lucky that we were both able to say everything we wanted to say before she drifted away for the last time.

For 25 years Mum travelled up and down the country with me to shows, always cheerful and always happy to safe guard someone's coat, handbag or pushchair whilst they were competing. So many happy memories.

No flowers by request but all donations gratefully received to either Valgrays Border Collie Rescue* or Hampshire & Isle of Wight Ambulance. Please forward to AH Cheater, Funeral Directors, Alma Road, Romsey, Hampshire.

Lesley Olden

A tribute to Diana Olden
What can I say but my thoughts are with you. When I read that you had lost your mum I truly cried, because I have loads of memories of her around the shows especially at the Old Purley shows ... your mum and my mum chatting. Both mums were our backbone and to lose them is very very hard.

Your mum will be so proud of you, Lesley - your talent with the dogs, even going back to the horses, but the dogs were you. You were born a true dog trainer and I always admired you and your ability to work them.

At this time of such sorrow I am thinking of you. Your mum will be watching over you, and when you do something wrong you will think 'my mum would be mad at that', because when I do errors in life I think my mum would give me what for.

So Lesley, be strong. I will be with you in my thoughts. Please convey my condolences to your family and friends who knew your mum. She was so sweet and will be sorely missed by all.

Val Phillips

If folk wish to donate to Valgrays in memory of Diana they can do so via the Funeral Directors (as above) or via the link 'to donate' on this website (via Paypal or Credit Card).  Thank you Lesley and family for thinking of Valgrays as this terribly sad time.

By now most of the dog world has received the terrible news of Zoe West and her friend who were tragically killed on the M6 on 4th July 08.
 
I am not sure how to start as, like everyone, we are still in terrible shock.....
 
We all knew Zoe with her wonderful GSD'S competing around the agility show scene, larger than life and she was such a lovely person, we always had conversations when at shows, Zoe always interested in my rescue dogs and me always talking about her lovely sheps....
 
Few weeks back Zoe and I met up on the film location of Trinny and Susanne, nobody knew till that day who would be selected, so it was a wonderful surprise to see Zoe and a few others I knew......
 
Filming was over 2 weeks and we had such fun, Zoe (typical of her sense of humour), saying that some of her inmates would be better running this film unit then the ones now!!!!
 
We were all asked to go to the studios in London, and the waiting around was a long time, again Zoe decided to play about and we both got told off, to keep the noise down.
 
My last thought of Zoe was when we had to travel back from London, we were put into this very posh taxi laid on by ITV.  Keith my partner me and sky were in the front row and Zoe and her lovely black Shepherd was in the back ... we only travelled a short distance and a smell in this taxi overcame us.  Not wanting to say anything as I thought someone had farted! Anyway eventually it got so bad we had to open the windows .... then a little voice in the back said, “opps sorry I’ve got a poo bag in my bag” ... I said why on earth did you not leave it in a skip, she said she forgot to ... so we travelled all around London to get to Waterloo Station, gagging!!!!!!!!!  Zoe we laughed so much.....
 
On the last day of filming we let our hair down, Marion my friend took some lovely pictures of Zoe, me and Trinny and at the end of the day we took our shoes off and run our dogs around an agility course which had been set up .... so in posh dresses and no shoes this was the real us.
 
I have wonderful memories of Zoe and our filming days together, the dogs had also a great time.
 
The news which eventually came to me about this terrible accident has just numbed me completely.  My thoughts are with her family, her friends and all who knew Zoe.  Her dear dogs will miss her as well.  So to Zoe ....

Myself and my friend first met Zoe on location filming for Trinny and Susannah.  Long days waiting around for filming were spent chatting away about our dogs and people watching.  What fun and laughs we all had!

On one of the days filming we had to go to the studios in London by train and take one of our dogs with us.  Unfortunately my dog really couldn’t cope with the train journey and consequently when I finally arrived at the destination, I was a gibbering wreck.  Zoe was there and instantly came over and hugged me.  She could see how upset I was.  After a cigarette and a drink together I soon felt so much better.  Zoe had an obvious natural gift to help people and knew when they needed support.

On the final day of filming, we all had so much fun together and we exchanged mobile numbers between us so that we could stay in touch.  We had arranged to meet up in July and August at a couple of agility shows.

Just like others, we are still in shock and utter disbelief that we won’t be seeing each other again and when we said goodbye on the final day, we would never have dreamt that it was our final goodbye.

Jo & Fliss

Friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly

 (Jo & Fliss/Shirley 14/07/08)

IN MEMORY OF PAT PLEASANTS…..

Last year many of Dog Training Weekly readers and friends saw the sad loss of a lovely lady Pat Pleasants .. Her connection with dogs was she originally bred Lakeland Terriers, but she and her husband John then had Border Collies and got ‘hooked’ on obedience.  Pat Emblow knew them in 1997 and they had three dogs (all collies) a white one named ‘kes’ who I believe got to Crufts, (not sure of year) ‘Ricky’ a very handsome black and white who did quite a lot of film and TV work, and ‘Robbie’ with only one eye due to an accident as a pup going through the dog flap as another came in.   However, he was quite a strong character. 

Pat Pleasants husband John died in 1997 and all the dogs had gone before Pats’ death last year.

She and John trained for some years at Cippenham dog club also Hamworth and Sunbury.  

That’s a little about Pat Pleasants life I know so far.  Last year I had a phone call from Pat Emblow saying that Pat Pleasants had passed away and was told that she had great regard for the work of the Valgrays Border Collie Rescue and myself in particular (as she was a regular reader of Dog Training Weekly)

With Pat Emblow and Jennifer Gower they agreed to be executors of her will.

Pat Emblow informed me that Valgrays had been left some money along with other rescues.  Well I was speechless, having donations left is such a lovely and worthwhile gesture but on the other hand it is not so rewarding knowing that someone has died.

Pat Emblow spoke to me many times and asked what I would really like and I informed her that it would be smashing to have a Dog Van, caged, air con etc, which could replace my van which is well known by Greenflag.  She laughed!

Also to get the rescue kennels repaired, fencing done, vet accounts sorted etc.  So the reason I am now writing to you all is that I wanted to let you all know that Valgrays Border Collie Rescue became the new owner of a Renault Trafic Van, caged out by K9 cages, air con etc. fencing done, under cover canopy for the dogs to stay dry and the vet’s accounts have all been sorted.

Valgrays Border Collie Rescue would like to take this opportunity of thanking Pat Emblow and Jennifer Gower in completing the wishes of Pat Pleasants and I can assure you all that the wonderful donation that we received will go to a very good cause 'THE DOGS'.

God Bless you Pat Pleasants may you look down on Valgrays Border Collie Rescue and see just what a difference you have done for us.

Val Phillips

Valgrays Border Collie Rescue

(Val 25/11/07)